Walking Away from the Matrix

You want to cross check alignment before you quit your day job, live in a van, or file for divorce.

Maybe you know that you can’t keep doing this job that’s been affording you (and maybe your family) a lifestyle. Maybe you’ve outgrown the self that chose this career path. Maybe technological and political changes have made the career you’ve previously enjoyed no longer enjoyable.

Maybe you’re fed up with playing small. Maybe you are fed up and willing to take some risk for a better life.

Maybe you need to slow down enough to hear the big change your heart is asking you to make.

You want to do something that aligns with your soul. There’s too much riding on it to not get it right.

There are tactical and financial concerns as you consider your options.

Why I Might Be the Person to Hire Before You Hire a Life or Business Coach, or Attorney

You were raised by a parent who overtly or covertly undermined you.
Your career was a choice made to go along with, or react to, the ideas your family/culture put upon you.
Your childhood involved entrapment in one way or another. This might look like physical violence, verbal violence, emotional abuse, narcissism, or parentalization.

Being in business as a survivor of childhood mistreatment gives you two jobs. Your paid position and the job of managing triggers and navigating old belief systems that clash with the image you want to present. It’s a lot.

My work works in the gap between questioning your next steps and hiring a business or life coach (or attorney). This engagement is for accomplished people who have become who they are, despite, or because of, a painful origin story.

My work helps you avoid having old patterns follow you into your next big step.

My work helps you strip away survival mechanisms from authentic identity, so you can take your soul with you. You can leave behind who you became.

Maybe you need a bridge between where you are now and taking the famed leap.

What’s Included

3 months to 1 Year

3 in person, hands-on, body-based sessions with Mindy, each month.

1 integration week per month — assigned companion workbook sections replace the private session that week. The questions are designed to surface hidden truths that either need updating or revealing. This is the difference between having misalignments removed for you, and fully understanding what it cost you — an invitation to deepen the journey rather than simply receive it.
A companion workbook developed to make a bridge between what has been and what’s becoming, deepen your discovery, and document the reorganization as it unfolds.
It is required to come once a month in person.
For some, this rhythm will continue beyond the initial 3 months, and for others, a less rigorous schedule will begin, allowing for what’s unfolding to have the right amount of space.
For those for whom staying longer than 3 months makes sense, we will not meet less than 2x a month, in order to maintain coherence and momentum.
Between sessions, I do significant analysis of what surfaced: tracing patterns, cross-referencing what you’ve told me against what your body is showing, and preparing the next layer of the investigation. I’m in the journey with you.
Slack communication channel for questions and the homework week.

The timeline varies as everyone has a different depth and breadth in their childhood rubbage heap, as well as external considerations. This package is not choose your own adventure, it’s finding a rhythm and depth of exploration to meet you where you are and help clear the underbrush so you can land on your feet with your next steps.

The Process

We start with a robust intake. The intake will be both verbal and hands-on. All of the components of the Sleuth Audit, if you haven’t taken it already, will be integrated into the first 6 weeks of work. We will identify what’s been tried already, where you’re considering going, and where potential inner discord lies.
I use my clairvoyance and clairsentience to let your body tell me the story of how you got where you are.
You start to gather a picture of unseen factors that created the reality you’re potentially preparing to exit.
We will work in the gap between your objectives in exiting your current problem matrix and where childhood tripwires might pull the rug out from under you as you make your moves.
We will focus on hidden stories that lay as well as surface ones, and together, they will be our guide.
I use Somatic Dialogue and Release, my signature discipline, to allow the body to release harmful energies that didn’t start with you.
This introduces the need for parts work, as healing buried trauma brings up exiled parts. We help them release old roles and let you take the lead.
This necessitates belief system work. If we were made to parent our younger siblings, for example, healing the belief systems around work is critical. Or sometimes we did unpaid emotional labor, being our parents’ therapist. These buried associations to work and relationship have a much much deeper impact than we initially realize.
Included in your homework will then be supplemental resources that will help move you to where you’re going. Aligned podcasts, thought leaders, books, etc.
You then begin to take steps towards the outcomes you want, and if there’s hiccups, I use Somatic Dialogue and Release framework to debug them. *The framework is Mapping (Intuitive Discovery), Removal (releasing what’s not aligned from your body), and Recalibration (Cranio Sacral to help you integrate who you are after the first two steps).
You will know when you are ready to move onto your next steps, and we will complete.

Who This Is For

This is for you if you are strongly considering making a big change in your life, and you are intuitively held back from moving forward, AND if your origin story involves destabilization, manipulation, and/or assault. This is for you if you need to preserve your stamina and ensure your alignment through a big shift that your soul is undeniably asking you to make. This is for you if you tend to step meticulously through life.

What Becomes Possible

You will move towards the tactical steps of your big shift without the danger of having the rug pulled out from beneath you by your childhood shadows.
You step towards your future with your soul intact.
You write your new offers from a place of inner alignment, eliminating guesswork. This is especially important – because creating your life work with your North Star intact avoids a house of cards.
Your confidence in any room won’t be a performance. It’ll be an integrated version of you that’s processed your inner discord, and who’s ready to show up to the game of life on your terms.
You will be clear on your REAL values, not the knee jerk ones that came from a wounded self asking for attention.
You will understand if it’s your childhood wrecking your relationship, not communication breakdowns, the other person, or other dynamics.
The same defeating patterns that keep putting the same outcome on a different face can finally, finally end.

Investment

Initial 3 months: $3,950

*Available to be billed in two payments, upon inquiry.

Subsequent work billed monthly, with a minimum of 2 meetings a month.

The monthly investment for ongoing monthly work: $1250

Money Back Guarantee

-If within the first two sessions you feel this isn’t a good fit for you, I’ll cancel your contract and refund the remaining of your investment (you pay for the two sessions)

-A request-to-cancel conversation with me is required